The Four of Cups

Ever feel like you’re just blah? Like things are happening around you, but you’re not really feeling them? Well, there’s a tarot card that totally gets it, the Four of Cups. And trust me, it’s more relatable than you think.

See this guy? He’s chilling, maybe meditating, but see the cups? Three are right in front of him, and there’s even another one being offered! But he’s just not interested.

The Four of Cups is all about feeling apathetic, bored, or even a little bit ungrateful. Maybe you’re scrolling through Insta seeing all your friends having fun, but you just can’t bring yourself to care. Or maybe you’ve been offered an awesome opportunity, but you’re too stuck in your own head to see it.

The Four of Cups Appearance

What do you see? Mostly, you’ll find a person, usually a young person, sitting down looking, well, kinda bored. They’ve got their arms crossed, staring off into the distance. There are three cups standing in front of them, neatly arranged. And another cup is being offered to them, usually from a hand emerging from a cloud!

Notice anything about their expression? Not exactly thrilled, right? They seem totally uninterested in what’s right in front of them. That’s a huge clue to what this card is all about.

Cups represent emotions, feelings, and relationships. So, those three cups already out there are things they already have. Friends, opportunities, maybe even things they’ve worked hard for. They’re there, they’re good, but our bored buddy isn’t appreciating them.

Meanings

General Readings

* Upright *

When the Four of Cups is upright in a reading, it’s usually a sign that you’re feeling apathetic, bored, or even a little bit blah. You might be in a situation where you should be excited or grateful, but you’re just not feeling it.

Maybe your friends are planning an awesome party, but you’d rather just stay home and binge watch your favorite show. Or maybe you got accepted into your dream school, but all you can think about are the scary student loans you are going to have.

You’re kinda withdrawn, uninterested in new opportunities, and maybe even a little bit ungrateful. Not necessarily in a mean way, but you’re just numb to what’s around you.

Why does this happen? Lots of reasons! Are you burnt out? Maybe you’re overwhelmed. Maybe you’re just going through a phase. It’s totally normal!

But the Four of Cups is also a little bit of a wake up call. It’s telling you to look up! That cup being offered from the sky? That’s a new opportunity, a fresh perspective, something that could actually shake you out of your funk.

So, what do you do? Take some time for yourself. Figure out what’s making you feel so meh. Practice gratitude, think about the good things you do have. And most importantly, be open to new possibilities, even if they don’t seem amazing at first glance. Sometimes, the best opportunities come when we least expect them.

* Reversed *

If the Four of Cups shows up reversed, it’s like a cosmic slap in the face. Its a wake up call. That boredom? It’s breaking. That feeling of being stuck? You’re unstucking right now!

It basically means you are snapping out of your state of meditation. Maybe you were so focused on yourself you are now seeing that life had passed you by and are now open to opportunities.

Maybe you are at a place where you were once sad, depressed or unwilling to socialize and are now finding yourself coming out of it.

The important thing is that if you were feeling stuck, you are now slowly finding a light to guide yourself.

So, what could this look like in real life? Maybe you finally reply to that text you’ve been ignoring. Or you sign up for that club you’ve been thinking about.

Maybe you finally started planning that trip with your family you said you would.

Shake off the blah and saying yes to the possibilities around you. It’s about seeing those cups that are being offered and actually reaching out to grab one! It’s like realizing, maybe there is something good out there for me!

Love and Relationship Readings

* Upright *

When the Four of Cups shows up in a reading about life, and it’s upright meaning it’s not upside down, it’s often a message that you might be missing opportunities. Like, maybe a friend is trying to include you in something awesome, but you’re too caught up in your own head to notice. It’s a sign to look up and see what’s around you.

It’s not necessarily a bad card. It just means you need to be more open to new experiences and appreciate what you already have. Try to be more grateful for the good things and people in your life!

Now, what about relationships? Let’s say you’re wondering about a friendship or maybe even a crush, and the Four of Cups appears upright. Well, it could mean you’re feeling a little uninspired.

Maybe someone is showing you they care, but you’re not really feeling it. You might be taking them for granted, or maybe you’re just not in the right headspace to appreciate their efforts. On the other hand, it could mean you are becoming so focused on them that you are failing to see the bigger picture and everything else going on around you in your relationship.

The Four of Cups is a gentle nudge to check yourself. Are you being open? Are you truly seeing the value in the relationship? Don’t let good things slip away because you are not paying attention!

* Reversed *

But when the Four of Cups is reversed, it’s like a cosmic alarm clock is going off! Think of it as a nudge from the universe saying, snap out of it! Time to get excited again! When you see this card, it is usually a sign that you’re coming out of a period of boredom, apathy, or introspection. It suggests a renewed sense of interest, engagement, and willingness to explore new opportunities or relationships.

If you’re single, the reversed Four of Cups could mean you’re finally ready to put yourself out there again! Maybe you’ve been avoiding dating or just haven’t been feeling it, but now you’re open to meeting someone new. Be prepared to say yes to opportunities that come along! If you’re already in a relationship, this card suggests that you and your partner are reigniting the spark. Perhaps you’ve been in a bit of a rut, but now you’re both making an effort to connect on a deeper level and bring back the excitement.

The biggest message of the reversed Four of Cups? Pay attention to the opportunities around you! Don’t let fear or apathy hold you back from experiencing new things and connecting with others. Get out there, try new things, and say yes to life!

Career Reading

* Upright *

That cup represents an opportunity. But our person isn’t even looking at it! When the Four of Cups is upright in a career reading, it often means you’re experiencing a period of apathy, boredom, or dissatisfaction with your current professional situation.

Think about it. Are you being offered new projects, training, or even a promotion, but you’re just not excited? Maybe you’re so focused on what’s wrong with your job that you’re missing out on potential benefits right in front of you.

See, the Four of Cups calls for some serious self reflection. Ask yourself these questions:

• What am I truly passionate about?
• What aspects of my current job are draining me?
• Am I being too critical of new opportunities?
• Am I comparing my journey with others?

It’s totally okay to feel uninspired sometimes. But the Four of Cups is a reminder that growth often comes from embracing new challenges, even if they don’t seem perfect at first glance.

The Four of Cups upright isn’t a bad omen. It’s urging you to open your eyes, appreciate what you have, and be receptive to new possibilities. Don’t let apathy steal your potential!

* Reversed *

When you see the Four of Cups reversed in a career reading, it’s generally a good sign! The energy is finally unblocked! You’re starting to notice those cups being offered to you, those opportunities, ideas, and possibilities you might have previously overlooked.

Maybe you were stuck in a rut, feeling like all the job options were boring or uninspiring. Reversed, this card says you’re waking up! You’re feeling more open to new ideas, more willing to explore different paths. It’s a sign to say yes to things that scare you a little, that internship in a field you know nothing about, that networking event that makes you nervous. Now is the time to be open to new opportunities.

This can also mean a return to motivation if you’ve been feeling burnt out. Perhaps you’re finally shaking off that negativity and discovering your passion again. Think about what excites you! What makes you want to jump out of bed in the morning.

One thing to watch out for, sometimes, the reversed Four of Cups can mean you’re too eager to jump at every opportunity. Don’t spread yourself too thin! Be strategic about what you say yes to, and make sure it aligns with your overall goals.

Financial Readings

* Upright *

Basically, you might be feeling a bit meh about your current financial situation. Opportunities might be right in front of you, like that amazing deal on sneakers you’ve been eyeing, or a chance to pick up some extra cash doing chores, but you’re just not feeling motivated to grab them.

It’s like, you have enough to get by, so you’re not driven to hustle or even appreciate what you’ve got. Maybe you’re a little bored with your allowance, or frustrated you cant afford the latest game release.

The Four of Cups upright is urging you to shake things up! Don’t ignore the opportunities knocking! Maybe you’ve been stuck in a rut, spending your money on the same old habits. This is a great time to reevaluate your spending, brainstorm new ways to earn, or even just practice some gratitude for what you already have.

Are you passing up a chance to learn a new skill that could lead to a future income stream? Are you being unappreciative of the things you already have?

The good news is, this card isn’t all doom and gloom! It’s a reminder that you have the power to change your attitude. Take a moment to reflect. Open your eyes to the possibilities around you. And most importantly, get excited about your financial future!

* Reversed *

You’ve been in that rut, ignoring potential financial opportunities. Maybe you were too scared to take a risk, or too lazy to look for a part time job, or maybe you thought you already knew everything.

It means you’re starting to see new opportunities around you. Maybe you applied for that job you were hesitant about and got an interview! Or you saw a cool side hustle you would never have considered before! You’re becoming more open to possibilities to improve your financial situation.

Now, the reversed Four of Cups isn’t a magic wand. It doesn’t automatically give you money but it signifies that the potential is there. It’s telling you that you’re open to change, which is the first and hardest step. The rest is up to you to put in the work.

This card encourages you to actively seek out new experiences, learn new skills, and be open to advice from others. Don’t be afraid to ask for help or try something completely different. It’s a time to be proactive!

Spiritual and Personal Growth Readings

* Upright *

So, you see this card in a reading, especially for personal growth, and it’s upright? Your missing out on something!

The Four of Cups upright is all about apathy, boredom, and missed opportunities. Imagine someone offering you, like, a free ticket to your favorite concert, but you’re too busy scrolling on your phone to even notice. That’s the energy of this card.

Spiritually, it’s a sign that you might be closed off to new experiences or connections. Maybe you’re stuck in a rut, doing the same things day in and day out. Or, you’re just so focused on what you don’t have that you’re blind to all the amazing things already around you. It could also mean you are in your head to much and not noticing the signals from the universe.

Now the Four of Cups isn’t trying to be mean. It’s a gentle nudge. You’ve got so much potential! Don’t let it go to waste.

Take a moment to check in with yourself. Are you feeling uninspired? Or are you avoiding things that could challenge you? Are you not allowing yourself to have some fun?

The next step is to actively seek out new experiences. Say yes to that invitation you would normally decline. Try a new hobby like painting or playing a instrument. Talk to someone you don’t usually talk to. Even small changes can make a huge difference. Also, try some self reflection. Spend some time to listen to your inner thoughts, what are the thing you are avoiding? This could be a good chance to change them.

Remember, personal growth isn’t about being perfect all the time. It’s about being open to learning and evolving. The Four of Cups upright is a wake up call to embrace new experiences and to appreciate what you already have. Don’t be afraid to step outside your comfort zone and say yes to life.

* Reversed *

So, what does the reversed Four of Cups mean for your personal growth? Well, here are a few things it could be saying:

• Saying yes more. Maybe you’ve been turning down invitations or new experiences. This card is a nudge to step outside your comfort zone and try something new. A friend invites you to a club meeting? Say yes! Wanna audition for the school play? Go for it!
• Fresh Opportunities. You might start seeing awesome opportunities that were always there, but you just didn’t notice before. Keep your eyes peeled!
• Breaking Free from Boredom. Feeling stuck in a rut? The reversed Four of Cups is a great sign that you’re about to shake things up and find some excitement.
• Gratitude is Key. Take a moment to appreciate what you do have. Sometimes we get so caught up in what we lack, we forget to be grateful for the good stuff already in our lives. This card is a little reminder to be thankful.

The reversed Four of Cups is all about moving forward. It’s about recognizing that life is full of possibilities and choosing to embrace them. It means ditching the blah and saying hello to adventure!

Connecting With The Four Of Cups

How do we ditch this Four of Cups energy and get back to feeling connected? First, acknowledge the blah. Don’t beat yourself up for feeling unmotivated. It happens!

Shake things up! Seriously, do something different. Try a new hobby, talk to someone you don’t usually talk to, go for a walk in a new place. Even small changes can break the cycle.

Look around. Is there someone offering you help or support? Maybe you’re so focused on feeling down that you’re missing it. Be open to new possibilities and people!

Finally, remember what you love. What makes you feel alive? What are you passionate about? Reconnect with those things.

The Four of Cups is a reminder that we all feel disconnected sometimes. But you have the power to break free and find your spark again! So, ditch the boredom, embrace new experiences, and connect with the awesome world around you!