You know that feeling like someone’s just stuck in your head?, are they thinking about you? Do you wonder if maybe, just maybe, you’re stuck in theirs too? Yeah, me too! We’re all connected by this invisible energy, right? Like, thoughts can travel.
So, naturally, the question pops up: Are they thinking about me? And let’s be real, we’ve all been there, especially when dealing with a major crush or a complicated friendship. That’s where the Tarot can come in handy.
Now, I’m not saying the Tarot is a mind-reading machine, but it can help you tap into the energies surrounding a situation. It’s more about getting clues and insights than a definitive yes or no. You can ask a simple question like: What’s the energy like between me and [person’s name]? or What are [persons name] feelings or thoughts about me?
Is Someone Thinking About You
The Law of Attraction basically says that like attracts like. So, if someone is thinking about you intensely, that thought-energy can actually reach you. Maybe you suddenly remember them, or you randomly see something that reminds you of them. It’s like your subconscious is picking up on their vibe! Some people dismiss this as coincidence, but I think it’s pretty cool to consider.
But here’s the thing: our brains are noisy places! We’re constantly bombarded with thoughts and feelings. So, how do you know if that sudden thought about them is just random, or a genuine energetic ping? That’s where tarot can help you filter out the noise.
Let’s do a super simple spread, Past, Present, Future (regarding their thoughts about you). Remember, this isn’t a definitive answer, but a way to explore the possibilities.
Past
Okay, the Past card is the… Five of Cups. Hmm. This could indicate that there might have been some disappointment or sadness between you two in the past. Maybe an argument, or just a missed opportunity. It doesn’t necessarily mean they were the cause of the sadness, but it’s part of the history between you. It can suggest they might be reflecting on this past, perhaps with a tinge of regret or nostalgia.
Present
The Present card is… The Lovers. Now this is interesting! The Lovers card isn’t always about romance, though it totally can be. It often represents choices, partnerships, and strong connections. In this context, it could mean they’re currently contemplating your relationship, or feeling a strong pull towards you. Maybe they’re thinking about reaching out. Or even just remembering a joyful moment that you shared.
Future
And finally, the Future card… The Knight of Wands. This card is full of energy and action! It suggests that going forward, there’s a good chance they might take some kind of initiative. Maybe they will decide to call or text you or reach out on social media. It’s all about following their impulses.
So, based on this reading, it seems pretty likely that this person is thinking about you! But remember, tarot is just a tool. It’s giving you clues, not writing your destiny. Don’t base your entire life on one reading, okay?
The most important thing is to trust your own intuition. Have you been seeing signs in real life? Maybe you keep running into their friends, or their name keeps popping up in unexpected places. Those real-world signs, combined with a tarot reading, can give you a more complete picture.
Ultimately, the best way to know if someone’s thinking about you is to just reach out! Send them a text, give them a call. Life’s too short to play guessing games. And who knows? Maybe you’re the one they’ve been thinking about too!
3 Card Spread
This spread is all about getting a quick snapshot of what’s going on. You’ll shuffle your cards, focus on the person you’re wondering about, and then draw three cards.
- Card 1: Their Thoughts: What’s on their mind in general, or specifically about you?
- Card 2: Their Feelings: How do they feel about you, or about the situation between you two?
- Card 3: Their Intentions: What actions are they likely to take, or what do they want to happen?
So, let’s say I pull these: The Knight of Wands for Their Thoughts, The Queen of Cups for Their Feelings, and The Seven of Swords for Their Intentions.
The Knight of Wands could mean they’re thinking about adventure, excitement, and maybe even a little flirtation! Queen of Cups means they have kindness and compassion in their heart! The Seven of Swords? Well, that could mean they’re being sneaky or maybe not entirely honest with themselves or others. Yikes! In this case it could mean they like you, but they’re reluctant to say or do anything!
Remember, these are just examples. Really look at the cards, their symbols, and trust your own intuition. What do you think they mean in relation to your situation?
5 Card Spread
Next up is a little more detailed: the 5-Card Spread.
This one gives you a deeper dive into the past, present, and future.
- Card 1: The Past: What happened between you two that’s relevant to the situation now?
- Card 2: The Present: What’s going on in their life right now that might be influencing their thoughts about you?
- Card 3: Are They Thinking of You?: This is the big one! Does this card suggest you’re on their mind?
- Card 4: Why?: Why are they (or aren’t they) thinking about you? What’s the underlying reason?
- Card 5: What Action to Take?: What should you do in this situation? Should you reach out? Give them space?
This spread is great because it gives you context. The Why card and the What Action to Take card are super helpful.
Yes/No Method
Finally, we have the simplest method: the Yes/No Method. There are two ways to do this!
- Option one: Just shuffle the deck, think about your question (Are they thinking about me?), and draw one card. Interpret it intuitively. Does it feel like a yes or a no? Sometimes the energy of the card is really clear!
- Option two (and this is what I prefer): is to assign the cards a yes or no. And this is where your intuition comes back.
Some cards are traditionally seen as more positive or relationship-oriented. These could be considered yes cards in our context:
- Two of Cups: Connection, partnership, love!
- Six of Cups: Nostalgia, fond memories, thinking about the past!
- The Lovers: Choice, union, attraction! (Obvious one, right?)
- Page of Cups: A sweet message, a new crush, open heartedness.
And the Three of Swords, the Five of Pentacles, or the Ten of Wands might lean towards a no. It just depends on your reading.
But remember, even a no card isn’t the end of the world! It just means maybe they’re not thinking about you right now. Things change!
Reversed cards can sometimes mean the opposite of their upright meaning, or they can represent blocked or delayed energy. Court cards (like the Page, Knight, Queen and King) often represent people, but they can also represent aspects of someone’s personality or approach to a situation. Like, maybe The Queen of Wands shows up, they’re thinking of that confident go-getter attitude they wish they had!
I always journal my readings. Write down each card, your initial impressions, and how the cards made you feel. Did your heart race? Did you get a sudden image in your head? These little clues can be super helpful.
And here’s the most important thing: align the reading with your reality. Does it feel right? Are you constantly running into this person? Have you been having dreams about them? Or does the reading feel totally off? Maybe they’re on vacation on another continent!
How a Vision Board Can Help
Think of a vision board as your personal mood board, but with a spiritual twist. Its why vision boards work as spiritual and creative tools. It’s a way to visually represent what you want to attract into your life. In this case, we want clarity about whether someone’s thinking about us, or maybe even to strengthen that connection.
What should you include? Okay, first off, images that scream love, communication, and clarity. Think happy couples, open roads, maybe even a picture of a clear blue sky.
Next, add some tarot card images or keywords. The Two of Cups is a classic for connection and partnership. You could even just write Truth or Trust in a pretty font. Really, anything that resonates with you and represents the kind of relationship or understanding you’re seeking.
And finally, sprinkle in some quotes or affirmations. Something like, i am open to receive love and connection, or What’s meant for me will find me. These are like little power boosts for your intention!
The key here is to make your board with intention. Don’t just slap things on randomly. Really think about the person you’re curious about, and focus on manifesting understanding and attracting mutual connection. What is it that you’re really craving in the first place?
Now, once your vision board is complete, take a few deep breaths, really feel the energy you’ve created, and then you can start reading your tarot. Think of your vision board as your guide. It can influence the reading so you can get an understanding of the connection and what their thinking through your reading. You can use the vision board as a base line or a foundation for your readings. .
The cards, combined with the energy of your vision board, can give you some amazing insights.
Dont Forget to:
- Anchor Your Energy: Before you even touch your cards, spend a few minutes looking at your vision board. Let the images and words sink in. This helps ground you and amplifies your intuition.
- Vision Board First, Cards Later: After creating a new vision board, pull a few tarot cards! Ask, What messages are aligned with the energy of this vision board? The cards will reveal deeper meanings and pathways to manifest your goals.
- Daily Card Focus: Choose one image or word from your vision board each day. Then, pull a daily tarot card focusing on that specific element. This helps you understand the daily steps you can take to achieve your dreams!
Combining tarot and vision boards is like leveling up your intuition game. It’s a creative, fun way to connect with your inner wisdom.
Keep An Eye Out For Signs
Pay attention to other signs around you! Have you been experiencing weird coincidences? Seeing repeating numbers everywhere, like 11:11 or 222 on your phone? That can be a sign that your thoughts, and their’s are aligned. Experiencing a sudden mood shift? Sometimes it’s as if someone is thinking of you, and that energy transfers over.
And here’s a super cool one: Are the cards you’re pulling starting to reflect what’s on your vision board? If you’ve been manifesting a romantic relationship, and you’re constantly pulling love-related cards, that’s a pretty strong sign that your vision and their thoughts, are aligned. It’s like the universe is giving you a little nudge!
So, that’s it! Use tarot as a fun way to explore those feelings, but don’t get too hung up on it. Trust your gut, look for the signs, and remember, the most important thing is to focus on your own happiness and well-being.
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